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如果生命可以重来 (献给所有女性读者)

130已有 134384 次阅读  2009-02-03 11:08   标签生命  女性 

简介

《如果生命可以重来》,是作者意识到自己将死于癌症时写下的一首朴素真挚的小诗。它告诉我们,对于一个即将离开这个世界的人来说,这个世界上什么是最重要的。

IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER - by Erma Bombeck
(Written after she found out she was dying from cancer.)

I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would
go into a holding pattern if I weren't there for the day.

I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage.

I would have talked less and listened more.

I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained, or the sofa faded.

I would have eaten the popcorn in the 'good' living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace.

I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth.

I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband.

I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day
because my hair had just been teased and sprayed.

I would have sat on the lawn with my grass stains.

I would have cried and laughed less while watching television
and more while watching life.

I would never have bought anything just because it was practical,
wouldn't show soil, or was guaranteed to last a lifetime.

Instead of wishing away nine months of preg nancy ,
I'd have cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment
growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle.

When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, 'Later.
Now go get washed up for dinner.' There would have been more 'I love you's' More 'I'm sorry's.'

But mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute.Look at it and really see it. . Live it and never give it back. STOP SWEATING THE SMALL STUFF!

Don't worry about who doesn't like you, who has more, or who's doing what
Instead, let's cherish the relationships we have with those who do love us.

Let's think about what God has blessed us with.
And what we are doing each day to promote ourselves mentally, physically, emotionally, as well as spiritually.


Life is too short to let it pass you by. We only have one shot at this and then it's gone.

I hope you all have a blessed day.

 

作者: Erma Bombeck

 

如果生命可以重来,

我会在自己生病时卧床休息,而不是假装整个地球将因我今日不在而停止旋转。

我会在那个玫瑰形状的粉红蜡烛在地下室里融化之前将它点燃。

我会少说多听。

我会请朋友到家里吃饭,虽然我的地毯满是污渍,沙发已经褪色。

我会在干净的客厅里吃爆米花,而不是担心当有人想点燃壁炉时会看到壁炉里未打扫的灰烬。

我会抽出时间听爷爷絮絮叨叨讲他年轻时的往事。

我会替丈夫分忧解难。

我永远不会在炎热的夏天因为自己的头发刚刚梳理和喷好发胶而坚持别人把车窗摇起。

我会坐在草坪上,即使绿草会把我的衣服弄脏。

我会把眼泪和笑声留给生活,而不是电视。

我不会因为一件东西实用、耐脏、耐用而买它。

我不会盼望妊娠早日过去,而是会珍惜怀孕的每一刻,并仔细体会腹内奇迹的成长,因为这是我一生中唯一一次帮助上帝创造奇迹的机会。

当我的孩子莫名地亲我时,我永远不会再说,“等一会儿。现在你要洗手吃饭。” 我会更多地说“我爱你”,“对不起。”

但是,更重要的是,如果生命可以重来,我将珍惜每一分钟。凝视它,并体会它。体验它,不会轻易对它放手。不再为小事而斤斤计较!

不要因为那些不喜欢你的人,那些比你富有的人而忧郁,也不要管别人在干什么。让我们珍惜与那些爱我们的人之间的亲情。

让我们想一下上天所给我们的恩赐,想一下我们每天该如何做才能使自己的心理、身体、情感和心灵得到升华。

生命如此短暂,怎敢蹉跎;人生只有一次,转瞬即逝。

愿你拥有幸福的每一天。

 

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  • sella 2009-02-03 11:54
    当我的孩子莫名地亲我时,我永远不会再说,“等一会儿。现在你要洗手吃饭。” 我会更多地说“我爱你”,“对不起。”
    尽管是单身,还是很想要一个孩子,多么可爱的小人儿,生命的延续.....
  • ezhai 2009-02-03 15:44
    不仅献给女性读者!
  • 果果素 2009-03-07 21:20
    真的很不错呢
  • tracy.tian 2009-03-13 12:00
    很不错啊,真的应该静静的反思一下自己每天的生活啊。。。。。。
  • ezhai 2009-03-13 12:00
    tracy.tian: 很不错啊,真的应该静静的反思一下自己每天的生活啊。。。。。。
    happy you like it.
  • ccccdd-1998 2009-03-15 16:45
    人呀,就是这样,只有等到将要失去的时候才会珍慔
  • alexander1218 2009-03-17 11:36
    谢谢分享
  • bill_mor 2009-03-17 22:14
    虽然是不女生,但很有意思。谢谢分享。
  • 2009wangting 2009-03-31 14:20
    人生有太多太多的遗憾了,失去了才知道珍惜,但是都为事以晚..
  • ayumifeng 2009-04-08 17:01
  • congbao 2009-04-13 14:32
    用乐观的心态去面对生活,少一些抱怨,多一些感恩,日子其实过得很快的,不知不觉地,我们能怎么办呢?珍惜生活的每一天。。。
  • cecilia.yu 2009-04-16 08:55
    看完后感觉自己虚度的生活真是一种罪恶
  • 欲语还休 2009-04-16 17:19
    珍惜生命!
  • 牛奋奋 2009-04-20 17:36
    让我们珍惜生命吧!拥有生命最幸福!
  • 快乐一生 2009-04-21 15:49
    珍惜现在拥有的一切,快乐过每一天!
  • liyingshangxuan 2009-04-22 11:49
    把每一天都当成生命的最后一天来过,珍惜一切美好的事物,也是一种积极的人生态度。
  • lingziandhz 2009-04-27 21:37
    好好珍惜一切美好!!
  • juneshow 2009-05-03 19:47
    像我远离家乡,跟父母的时间很少,我想家
  • sentty 2009-05-05 10:23
    我会坐在草坪上,即使绿草会把我的衣服弄脏。

    嗯嗯,我就是这样做的,尽管有时会弄脏裤子,但是坐在草地上的感觉真的是很美妙,很舒服!
  • athim 2009-05-06 17:31
    和《假如给我三天光明》一样令人感动
  • xiyue 2009-05-07 13:56
    总是有很多东西让我们来不及。。。。。。
  • fairy709 2009-05-07 17:57
    恩,有些地方我现在的生活中就这样做,但是有时却往往不被人理解,比如不会因为怕弄脏了衣服而不选择坐在草坪上,比如不怕风吹坏了自己的发型等等,所以我觉得当你和朋友和亲人在一起的时候,他们能理解你所作也许跟你想做得都很重要
  • fairy709 2009-05-07 17:58
    不过做自己想做到最重要了
  • 淡淡然 2009-05-08 20:48
    每一天都是弥足珍贵的!所以不要等到逝去了才后悔!
  • Lillian0812 2009-05-09 09:47
    love it
  • Lillian0812 2009-05-09 09:56
    生命如此短暂,怎敢蹉跎;人生只有一次,转瞬即逝。

    愿你拥有幸福的每一天。
  • 范范范范3092 2009-05-10 12:50
    我会少说多听
  • dzw 2009-05-11 20:14
    不要失去了才知道珍惜,不要错过了才知道后悔,人生就是要抓住每一个瞬间,每一个刹那......
  • 蓝小邪 2009-05-15 14:58
    珍惜现在,享受自己就可以了
  • Weeb 2009-05-15 23:24
    的确该好好反省生活了。、
    珍惜时间命。
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